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Dr Daniel Benor
You teach best that which you most need to learn. Anonymous
A group of medics and healers gathered in London in 1991 to seminar on how healing might best be taught.(1)
A western scientist travelled to a distant, famous Zen master to learn meditation. He respectfully asked if he might be accepted as his student.
The master offered the traveller a cup of tea, which was gratefully accepted. The scientist was horrified to see the master pour the tea till the cup overflowed into the saucer, then onto the table. When it reached the floor he could contain himself no longer and exclaimed, "Do you not see what you doing? The cup is overflowing!"
"Do you not see what you are doing?" responded the master. "Your cup must be empty before it can hold something more."
Requisite levels of medical knowledge for ethical and optimal healing efficacy were debated. It was pointed out that unfamiliarity on the part of healers with medical diagnoses, physiological processes in health and disease, therapeutic measures, and teaching methodologies contributed to difficulties in bridging the gaps between conventional medicine and healing. Instances were cited of misrepresentation of facts by healers to healees, out of apparent ignorance of medical and healing processes. For instance, several distressed and puzzled healees reported that their healers had told them they could not have healing while receiving chemo- or x-ray therapy for cancer because this was dangerous to the healers.
The need was expressed by those experienced in medical education for increasing awareness in the healing movement of modern, established ways of teaching. If healing is to gain respect as it is introduced in conventional nursing and medical treatment and educational settings, healers will need to become familiar with and utilise modern, scientific educational methods.
There was disagreement on whether assessments ought or even could be made on the degrees of development or efficacy of healers, and no agreement on who or what might constitute authority to judge a healer. More of the medics/educators felt that this is important and more of the healers felt that it is impossible to institute. Because most healers are able to make firm recommendations when asked who is a good healer for a patient with serious illness or prominent position, the problem would appear to reside in a reluctance to sit in public judgement of peers rather than an inability to do so.
The complexity of the task is evidenced by Figure 1, detailing items considered important by the participants who discussed the teaching of healing. This is not a comprehensive list, nor does it address how to implement the recommendations.
Dissecting healing into its component elements confronts one with two types of problem. On the one hand it may appear that one is picking apart and examining such small bits of healing that they become meaningless. On the other hand, from studies of component parts one may grow in understanding of the whole and improve in one's ability to heal and to teach healing.
Many healers are uninterested in doing this. They simply trust that a higher power than themselves will understand the problem, know what to do about it, and do whatever is necessary and right. I know healers of this sort who achieve excellent results and some of these are good teachers.
Other healers and the vast majority of medics familiar with healing feel that the deeper one's understanding of healing the more one will be able to help. I believe that even if one is leaving the specifics of healing to a higher awareness, one's limited education may introduce limitations to the healing through one's ignorance of how a person may change and through one's unconscious disbeliefs.
In Eastern Europe and Russia, healers who are working closely with doctors often study anatomy, physiology and the like so that they can sharpen their diagnostic accuracy and focus their healing better upon disease processes. In the west, many healers study counselling and psychotherapy. These studies improve communications with medics and enhance awareness of physiological and psychological pathways for healing.
The complexities of the processes of healing may deter medics and healers from even attempting to analyse them. On the one hand, not dissecting the process intellectually allows one to apply pure intuition to sort out the best approaches. On the other hand, this challenges one to choose carefully how and where to allocate and invest one's resources in doing and teaching healing.
While I strongly believe that every item in the table has its value and importance in learning healing, I feel that the first four are the most important and closely interlinked with each other. I believe that most people have a measure of healing ability and that one of the most crucial factors in developing it is their maintaining a clarity of intent to activate and improve it. Temptations to boost one's own ego through proving how strong a healer one is must be avoided.. One must not push healees to demonstrate improvements but rather help them to listen to what their body, mind and spirit are telling them and to understand the meanings of their illness.
When the teacher is ready, the student arrives to teach her/him.
Healers can be role models. They may demonstrate that which they teach by working on healing their own frailties first of all, to model that which they hope to convey to others. They will continue to grow and to learn through the lessons their healees bring them. If healers are not afraid to explore their own shadow, their healees will have a much easier time of learning to address this most difficult of all challenges. Healing becomes an act of shared creation of new understandings and new realities between healer and healee. (2, 3)
ESSENTIAL FACTORS IN LEARNING HEALING
OVERALL Integrity Innate gift intentionality in activating and applying this selflessness in using it (vs boosting healer's ego) clarity of healer's inner development path Modelling personally what one teaches Compassion, genuinely caring enough to help others selflessly Centring Respect for healee Selecting students middling average gifted Ethical standards Experience under supervision of advanced healers (and medical personnel) Appreciating styles of learning Open to learning ever more Maturity Responsibility Humility Social acceptability Needs/fees of healers
PHYSICAL Diagnosis Physical causes congenital metabolic infectious toxic traumatic allergic neoplastic degenerative Psychosomatic/disharmony Healee responsibility (not blame) Vehicles (cloth, cotton wool, water, etc.)
EMOTIONAL Healer self-awareness unconditional love empathy ability to introspect clearing the healer's own emotional residues not pushing healing to build healer's ego supervisor/peer review/support burnout awareness/prevention relaxation using humour Healer knowledge the unconscious mind/shadow defence mechanisms emotional scars over-determination of symptoms/illnesses trust/distrust addressing causes, not just chasing symptoms personality types stages of psychological development family relations counselling/psychotherapy knowing when to be gentle, when firm boundaries respecting healee's ownership of problems human being vs doing; waiting for healee invitation to intervene
MENTAL Intelligence Intellectual abilities Openness to learning new ideas Independence of thought/responsibility Clarity of boundaries personal emotional professional understanding subjective judgements, attitudes respecting healee's judgements, attitudes, and decisions responsibility openness to teacher's instructions Clarifying reasons for disease/dis-ease Common sense/counselling Reframing Imaging ('visualisation') Raising consciousness Meditation Absent healing Group healing Clarity regarding theory/structure within which healing is done Balance of thinking/feeling/intuition/sensation or 'right brain' and 'left-brain' thinking Ego strengths Dangers of ego involvement Creativity Self correction/improvement/research Communication writing/speaking - to healees, health care professionals, public teaching
SPIRITUAL Model conceptual intuitional Healer embodying/modelling spirituality Permission/taboos Guidance/spirits Clarity of channel Reincarnation Awareness of soul needs Group mind Religious beliefs healer allegiances respect for healee's beliefs Surrender vs responsibility Good/evil; yin/yang; the space between musical notes Gaia (planetary consciousness)
HEALING ENERGIES Auric fields (hand palpated and/or visualised) sensing identifying diagnoses energy abnormalities (high/low, blocks, leaks, unusual sensations, etc) medical diagnoses correcting Chakras Meridians Craniosacral Distant/Absent/Radionics healing
BROADER LEVELS FOR HEALING Relational/family Political Gaia (planetary)
PROFESSIONAL RESPONSIBILITY/RELIABILITY Legal Availability in emergencies Assessments/standards (e.g. NCVQs) Referring on to other healers/professionals Training/supervision for trainers Emotional: acknowledging and accepting limitations of the teacher Mental: The teaching is not necessarily embodied in the person of the teacher Spiritual: The teacher is the teaching Ongoing education case conferences interfacing with health care professionals peer review of healing problems/'failures' research
Footnotes:
1. Bonnie Alexander-Hill, Ray Bailey, Guy Batham, Paulina Baume, Dr Daniel Benor, Rita Benor, Peter Brown, Judy Fraser, Ken Frewer, Lorna Giles, Dr Theo Peters, John Phelps, Dr Jean Roberton, Dr Peter Saywood, Jane Tinworth
2. Stephen Levine, Meetings at the Edge: Dialogues with the Grieving and the Dying, the Healing and the Healed., London/New York: Anchor/Doubleday 1984
3. Ram Dass and Paul Gorman, How Can I Help? Emotional support and spiritual inspiration for those who care for others. London: Rider 1985.
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