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FACTORS IN TEACHING HEALING

Dr Daniel Benor      

You teach best that which you most need to learn.  
                 Anonymous


A group of medics and healers gathered in London in 1991 to seminar on how healing might best be taught.(1)

A western scientist travelled to a distant, famous Zen master to learn meditation.  He respectfully asked if he might be accepted as his student.

  The master offered the traveller a cup of tea, which was gratefully accepted.  The scientist was horrified to see the master pour the tea till the cup overflowed into the saucer, then onto the table.
 
  When it reached the floor he could contain himself no longer and exclaimed, "Do you not see what you doing?  The cup is overflowing!"
  "Do you not see what you are doing?" responded the master.  "Your cup must be empty before it can hold something more."

  Requisite levels of medical knowledge for ethical and optimal healing efficacy were debated.  It was pointed out that unfamiliarity on the part of healers with medical diagnoses, physiological processes in health and disease, therapeutic measures, and teaching methodologies contributed to difficulties in bridging the gaps between conventional medicine and healing.   Instances were cited of misrepresentation of facts by healers to healees, out of apparent ignorance of medical and healing processes.  For instance, several distressed and puzzled healees reported that their healers had told them they could not have healing while receiving chemo- or x-ray therapy for cancer because this was dangerous to the healers.

  The need was expressed by those experienced in medical education for increasing awareness in the healing movement of modern, established ways of teaching.  If healing is to gain respect as it is introduced in conventional nursing and medical treatment and educational settings, healers will need to become familiar with and utilise modern, scientific educational methods.

  There was disagreement on whether assessments ought or even could be made on the degrees of development or efficacy of healers, and no agreement on who or what might constitute authority to judge a healer.  More of the medics/educators felt that this is important and more of the healers felt that it is impossible to institute.  Because most healers are able to make firm recommendations when asked who is a good healer for a patient with serious illness or prominent position, the problem would appear to reside in a reluctance to sit in public judgement of peers rather than an inability to do so.

  The complexity of the task is evidenced by Figure 1, detailing  items considered important by the participants who discussed the teaching of healing.  This is not a comprehensive list, nor does it address how to implement the recommendations.

  Dissecting healing into its component elements confronts one with two types of problem.  On the one hand it may appear that one is picking apart and examining such small bits of healing that they become meaningless.  On the other hand, from studies of component parts one may grow in understanding of the whole and improve in one's ability to heal and to teach healing.

  Many healers are uninterested in doing this.  They simply trust that a higher power than themselves will understand the problem, know what to do about it, and do whatever is necessary and right.  I know healers of this sort who achieve excellent results and some of these are good teachers.

  Other healers and the vast majority of medics familiar with healing feel that the deeper one's understanding of healing the more one will be able to help.  I believe that even if one is leaving the specifics of healing to a higher awareness, one's limited education may introduce limitations to the healing through one's ignorance of how a person may change and through one's unconscious disbeliefs.

  In Eastern Europe and Russia, healers who are working closely with doctors often study anatomy, physiology and the like so that they can sharpen their diagnostic accuracy and focus their healing better upon disease processes.  In the west, many healers study counselling and psychotherapy.  These studies improve communications with medics and enhance awareness of physiological and psychological pathways for healing.

   The complexities of the processes of healing may deter medics and healers from even attempting to analyse them.  On the one hand, not dissecting the process intellectually allows one to apply pure intuition to sort out the best approaches.  On the other hand, this challenges one to choose carefully how and where to allocate and invest one's resources in doing and teaching healing.

  While I strongly believe that every item in the table has its value and importance in learning healing, I feel that the first four are the most important and closely interlinked with each other.  I believe that most people have a measure of healing ability and that one of the most crucial factors in developing it is their maintaining a clarity of intent to activate and improve it.  Temptations to boost one's own ego through proving how strong a healer one is must be avoided..  One must not push healees to demonstrate improvements but rather help them to listen to what their body, mind and spirit are telling them and to understand the meanings of their illness.

When the teacher is ready, the student arrives to teach her/him.

  Healers can be role models.  They may demonstrate that which they teach by working on healing their own frailties first of all, to model that which they hope to convey to others.  They will continue to grow and to learn through the lessons their healees bring them.  If healers are not afraid to explore their own shadow, their healees will have a much easier time of learning to address this most difficult of all challenges.  Healing becomes an act of shared creation of new understandings and new realities between healer and healee. (2, 3)


                                              ESSENTIAL FACTORS IN LEARNING HEALING
OVERALL
   Integrity
   Innate gift
      intentionality in activating and applying this
      selflessness in using it (vs boosting healer's ego)
      clarity of healer's inner development path
   Modelling personally what one teaches
   Compassion, genuinely caring enough to help others selflessly
   Centring
   Respect for healee
   Selecting students
      middling
      average
      gifted
   Ethical standards
   Experience under supervision of advanced  healers (and medical personnel)
   Appreciating styles of learning
   Open to learning ever more
   Maturity
   Responsibility
   Humility
   Social acceptability
   Needs/fees of healers

PHYSICAL
   Diagnosis
   Physical causes
       congenital
       metabolic
       infectious
       toxic
       traumatic
       allergic
       neoplastic
       degenerative
   Psychosomatic/disharmony
   Healee responsibility (not blame)
   Vehicles (cloth, cotton wool, water, etc.)

EMOTIONAL
   Healer self-awareness
       unconditional love
       empathy
       ability to introspect
       clearing the healer's own emotional residues
       not pushing healing to build healer's ego
       supervisor/peer review/support
       burnout awareness/prevention
       relaxation
       using humour
   Healer knowledge
        the unconscious mind/shadow
        defence mechanisms
        emotional scars
        over-determination of symptoms/illnesses
        trust/distrust
        addressing causes, not just chasing symptoms
        personality types
        stages of psychological development
        family relations
        counselling/psychotherapy
        knowing when to be gentle, when firm
        boundaries
        respecting healee's ownership of problems
            human being vs doing;
        waiting for healee invitation to intervene

MENTAL
    Intelligence
        Intellectual abilities
        Openness to learning new ideas
        Independence of thought/responsibility
    Clarity of boundaries
        personal
        emotional
        professional
        understanding subjective judgements, attitudes
        respecting healee's judgements, attitudes, and  decisions
        responsibility
        openness to teacher's instructions
    Clarifying reasons for disease/dis-ease
    Common sense/counselling
    Reframing
    Imaging ('visualisation')
    Raising consciousness
    Meditation
    Absent healing
    Group healing
    Clarity regarding theory/structure within which healing is done
    Balance of  thinking/feeling/intuition/sensation or 'right brain' and 'left-brain' thinking
    Ego strengths
    Dangers of ego involvement
    Creativity
    Self correction/improvement/research
    Communication
        writing/speaking - to healees, health care professionals, public
        teaching

SPIRITUAL          
     Model
         conceptual
         intuitional
    Healer embodying/modelling spirituality  
    Permission/taboos
    Guidance/spirits
    Clarity of channel
    Reincarnation 
    Awareness of soul needs
    Group mind
    Religious beliefs
        healer allegiances 
        respect for healee's beliefs
    Surrender vs responsibility
    Good/evil; yin/yang; the space between musical notes
    Gaia (planetary consciousness)

HEALING ENERGIES
    Auric fields (hand palpated and/or visualised)
        sensing
        identifying diagnoses
        energy abnormalities (high/low, blocks, leaks,  unusual sensations, etc)
        medical diagnoses
        correcting
   Chakras
   Meridians
   Craniosacral
   Distant/Absent/Radionics healing

BROADER LEVELS FOR HEALING
    Relational/family
   Political
    Gaia (planetary)

PROFESSIONAL RESPONSIBILITY/RELIABILITY
   Legal
    Availability in emergencies
   Assessments/standards (e.g. NCVQs)
   Referring on to other healers/professionals
   Training/supervision for trainers
        Emotional: acknowledging and accepting limitations of the teacher
        Mental: The teaching is not necessarily embodied  in the person of the teacher
         Spiritual: The teacher is the teaching
    Ongoing education
        case conferences
         interfacing with health care professionals
         peer review of healing problems/'failures'
         research

Footnotes:

1. Bonnie Alexander-Hill, Ray Bailey, Guy Batham, Paulina Baume, Dr Daniel Benor, Rita Benor, Peter Brown, Judy Fraser, Ken Frewer, Lorna Giles, Dr Theo Peters, John Phelps, Dr Jean Roberton, Dr Peter Saywood, Jane Tinworth

2. Stephen Levine, Meetings at the Edge: Dialogues with the Grieving and the Dying, the Healing and the Healed., London/New York: Anchor/Doubleday 1984

3. Ram Dass and Paul Gorman, How Can I Help? Emotional support and spiritual inspiration for those who care for others. London: Rider 1985.
 

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Copyright © Daniel J. Benor, M.D. 1993 Reprinted with permission of the author P.O. Box 76 Bellmawr, NJ 08099 www.WholisticHealingResearch.com   DB@WholisticHealingResearch.com 

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